Wednesday, April 26, 2017

This is enough already!

Hug son,tightly and kiss his lovely cheek.
Hug those lovely students,cheap hats, hh.just to imagine,with the same sense of happiness.
Just to buy vegetables with son by bike,he carries them for me,hand in hand,nobody can feel how happy I am!
Just to accompany him growing up happily day by day,cheap hats, which is my biggest success in my whole life,I think.
Is there a song which makes you sing together?
Is there a song which makes you suddenly remember me?
The taste of happiness.
Time goes on!
I love what I have now.
I want to tell who I love and love me.
Thank you for appearing in my life in such nice days.
Thank you for believing me a sincere woman.
Thank you for thinking me a bit lovely.
Remember those thanks
Life is so nice!

Never be a so-called "good person".

I hate "伪善,假热情,烂好人"so many are always mistaken for so-called good person.
In such a society,cheap nfl hats, maybe "good person" can be deleted,it ever stands for a simple heart,without any purposiveness to help in some past times.However,what most people say and do now is related with their wantings from the other side.Once understanding these,everything seems boring and bald to us.Sometimes,I even think it's a waste of time to discuss or chat with those familiar persons around us,for knowing each other well already,just acting!So I should learn to shut up,what they are caring is nothing with me.I have ever said that I never beg anyone to call me a so-called a "good person".Not to do anything just for pleasing anyone,or just for a good praise.
Distance makes one person look and feel nicer.When getting closer,advantages smaller,shortcomings bigger,all feelings are changing.So the best way to keep the best relations is not to get too closer.So don't praise anyone too early,replica oakley sunglasses, whether you will still want to think one person the same good after knowing him better.
I believe only the real benefits including money,reputation or many others,can measure a person is better or worse.Out of benefit,most can do their best to show their kindness to others, to obtain others' likings and trusts.Some telling in public how they have so much sympathy for those poor,so funny!it seems that nobody needs their sympathy!Sometimes,they help those who don't need their help at all,just for showing their zeals and makes others think them as "good person".However,in front of the real benefit,they will be completely naked,or even make lots of bald falsehood to keep on their masks.I call them "伪善,假热情“。
No-selecting to help is also terrible,even to complain when they get no acceptance later.If we decide to help someone,then never complain,otherwise,to select the right person to help,nfl jerseys cheap, or learn to say no.Listening to someone say that she regards some's calling her "good person"as a success,it's so funny and lamentable!You must know!To be approved by others' heart will maybe never let you know! Of course,which lets you know is maybe false.Say nothing of those speaking ill of someone who has ever helped them,just because she didn't choose well.
I call this so-called the good person"烂好人“。

principle

DON'T WANT the things which don't belong to me.
DON'T WANT the person who don't love me.
DON'T WANT the friends with phony emotions.

I prefer to be alone,cheap jerseys, but will never lonely in deep heart.

NEVER HURT those lovely children,who I wanna give them the pure love,but just a distant and short-time love.
NEVER HURT those weakers than I.
NEVER HURT others to obtain what I want before they hurt me.

To be a common person,less people knows,even nobody knows who I am.That's why I always can't see others in the street, and others say hello to me first.

THINK“good man" as a funny title.Only benefit measures one person better or worse,or say,some are easy-changing,merely some are not.
To be myself,maybe a bit selfish,but never disturbe or trouble others easily besides my family.For only they really love me.
TRY to be deaf,nothing can mess my heart,for they also think what they say as a waste.

Far away from those boring things.

Praise,get away from me,please,so false!I never believe you from now on!!
Roll away,cheap Oakley sunglasses, those persons I dislike.which is also another kind of happiness.Let me no see you!!
I have a vague showing,but a very clear heart.  

I am who I am,never others.    

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

How to learn English with self-confidence

I was inspired by the words from Napoleon Hill:

Helping others also helps you, you can further your own career by helping others achieve their goals

A few Chinese readers told me that they would like to learn English from my Wechat Subscription.

I was very happy to hear that, but I must say that my English is not perfect which is still full of grammar mistakes.

However, I am glad to create a positive team environment, wholesale nfl jerseys, give you guy encouragement and support.

Hopefully, one day, I influence the way you think- boost your self-confidence. Meanwhile, my English has been improved.

So keep going, don’t stop, we’ll be there one day.
Dream big
Napoleon Hill said: Dare to dream big dreams. Fill yourself with the faith that nothing is impossible for “ whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe; the mind of man can achieve.”

Compared with locals, my English is not good enough, but I still have courage to create a Wechat account because there's a big dream which excites my English writing:

One day Englishpassion will be the best in China for someone who writes English as second language and brings value to the society which also benefits for myself.

Start a big dream for the aim you learn English, keep a picture in your mind: one day, something nice will happen to you if you push yourself study hard.

20 years ago, I had an unrealistic big dream: study overseas, so no matter what happened and how impossible to achieve, cheap nfl hats, it didn’t stop me keep learning English.

In the end, I made it in my 30s after marriage and had a daughter.

What is your impossible big dreams? Studying overseas, traveling abroad, working in a better company, to be a manager in a foreign-run company, to be a professional translator, finding a desirable job for a stay-at-home mum etc.

Or if you don’t have one, then please think really hard, find a dream even it is a day dream.

Just use your wild imagination, think about anything which seems hopeless but it really fascinates you when you just think about it.
Know why
You must write down reasons why you would like to make that dream happen.

For me, I dreamed study abroad as I read books which gave me an image that overseas life was so exciting, that’s exactly what I was looking for.

With high expectation, I counted down dates the more English I’ve learnt, the closer the day I would be an overseas student.

Therefore, I spent more than 8 hours a day in learning English by giving up entertainment and holidays.

So what is yours?

You must confirm yourself that you have an essential reason so that you have to put huge effort in learning  English.

Fear
You might say there are so many who have already had overseas background, no matter how hard you try, it’s impossible for you catch up with them.

I can tell you that’s not the case.

If overseas students hang around with people from the same country, talk the same language all day long; if they only know how to pass IELTS or exams from the Uni,

In most cases, their English reading and writing won’t be better than the one who has never been abroad but spend tremendous time and put huge effort practice English on a daily basis.

Optimism
You may dream one day you would love to study in a foreign country, but you can’t afford it as your parents are not rich enough.

That’s not a big deal; you can rely on yourself, eg, working in a big foreign company for a better position with higher salary.

How do you compete with others?

In China, the majority Uni graduates have obtained English certificate 4, 6 even 8, so that is only a piece of paper for entrance requirement, which won’t bring you much competitive advantage.

You will be the one who can stand out from so many competitors, the only thing your English have to reach a high level so that you can communicate with English native speakers with no problems.

My cousin didn’t enter into a dreamed Uni and studied a degree which he didn’t enjoy, but he keep self-study English and IT.

In the end, he got a job in an American-run company, which brings him job satisfaction and enjoyment.
Belief
Instead of jealous someone who has a better fortune, strongly believe you can do it by yourself.

Please don’t self-doubt, you are dumb, you are inferior, no, and you are not.

I agree Napoleon Hill:
Success is achieved by those who are thoroughly imbued with belief that they can attain it.

Live in the present
Once upon a time, you might not a top student in the class, you might miss the chance entering the best Uni, cheap oakley sunglasses, but they all belong to the past, please make today a new start.

Make a plan and take action
Write down a specific plan how to achieve your goals.

For example, if you would like to improve your English speaking and reading, then start from reading a simple English article or a magazine and look up the dictionary for the unknown words

Or find a few topics each week, practice oral English by yourself.

That would be better if you find someone who can talk with.

Otherwise, no worries, you can still practice speaking English on your own, you may regarded it as preparing a TED.

Persistence
You have to do it on a regular basis, eg, memorizing 10 vocabularies or phrases per day from the English movies you are watching or the books you are reading.

You can also give yourself a target: watch 2 English movies, read and write a few articles per week.

It’s up to you, no matter how slow or fast, you should develop a good habit by spending at least a couple of hours per day.

discipline
Stick to a plan is essential, otherwise, your time might be taken over by texting to friends, checking Wechat moments or having negative thoughts.

I remembered when I started learning English and I couldn’t stick to only one section as I will get bored easily.

So every day, I spent a couple of hours on each section: listening, speaking (practice by myself) and reading, sorry I didn’t spend much time on writing until now I write 2 articles/ week.

Conclusion:
Your success is unlimited, if you find a big dream, know why, cheap jerseys, please strongly believe you can make it and forget about no matter what happened in the past.

Then make a plan, write down detailed time schedule, take action with self-discipline and persistence, if you try really hard, then one day you can achieve your goal with no doubt.

Unhappy Experience

  We are now going back to work after three-day holidays. As usual, instead of staying at home, cheap snapbackswe went out for having fun with my family during the Tomb-sweeping festival, the weather was pretty good at these days and all kinds of flowers were blooming and flourishing in tourist attractions. Before we planned to go out, we especially choose scenery spot nearby our community in order to avoid terribly traffic jam which would be involved in. Unfortunately, we started a good beginning to get out of traffic problem, but never thought we were involved in another trouble when we arrived scenery spot. There was already a sea of people before arrival there, at as the most crowed stage, we didn't move by ourselves just along with the crowds, it's better to look at the people around us than to enjoy the scenery. The feeling of exciting was gradually waning as time goes by. I had to admit this was an unhappy experience.
      Such a phenomenon may come from every traditional festival, cheap replica oakleysespecially the most difficult moment often occurs between Nation holiday and New Year holiday. It seemed to be inevitable in China.

A new life

A New life.
From the day I gave birth to my second child, I have a new living life. At the beginning, it’s full of difficulties and challenges, so that I was in blue mood. Addition to my hurt body, I felt exhausted. Life was not as same as what I imagined. I didn’t know how to control the situation. I felt that the pressure on the shoulder was too huge. I wanted to escape, but I couldn’t. Looking at my dearest babies, I found the energy and power, cheap nfl jerseys, I saw life not always smooth, I need to find a better way to adjust my attitude to face the new life, I have two lovely babies, I should be satisfied, although it’s not easy to bring them up and teach them well, I should try my best to be a good mother, I should set a good example for them, I should make them feel happy along the way of their growing. I have the responsibility, and that would be the sweet responsibility. Remember the old saying goes: content is happiness. And don’t give up forever.

Monday, April 17, 2017

A terrible experience

 When it comes to a moment of embarrassment in my life, my memories date back to the first day I went to senior high school.
 That's a rainy day and the terrible weather gave raise to a traffic jam. When I got off the taxi, there were a few minutes left and it was undeniable that I would be late for my class. So, with the bag clutched in my hand I set out in the direction of my classroom.
  Nevertheless, when I rushed up the stairs I lost my balance because of the wet floor and my rear met the ground. I stood up and looked around pitifully. Fortunately, I realized that nobody had noticed me. I held my bag and sped up to the classroom. After a difficult journey I finally got to my classroom.
   In order to sneak into the classroom I entered the classroom through the back door. However, misfortunes never come alone. When I tiptoed to my desk I knocked the bookshelf off and made loud noises. I could feel that almost everyone's attention was drawn to me. Meanwhile, our head teacher came into the class. A cold sweat broke out on the back of my neck. I would appreciate it if someone can help me pick up the books, cheap jerseys, but it seems that nobody was willing to do me a favor. So, the only thing I could do was clear up the books and curse under my breath at the same time. Then I finally settled into my chair in relief. What an embarrassment!

something about running

Recently, I have developed a habit of running.
After the whole day's lessons, cheap snapback hats, leaving everything in the dorm, wearing a pair of sneakers, putting on earphones, keeping broadcasting a single song, I will begin to run. I may go to the playground and run along the runway. Sometimes I may just run around the school from one side to the other. Beside this, both running with a partner and running on my own are my choices. When someone accompanies me during the process, I will feel at ease. And when running alone, I will have time to think about some questions that I won't deliberate in the other time.
Nowadays, running is considered to be a method to lose weight. In some aspects, it is right. Nevertheless, we should keep in mind that over 30 minutes' aerobic exercise can help you burn up the fat. In other words, you need to run at least 30 minutes in order to reduce weight. It's not easy to do that, is it?
From where I stand, running is a style of life instead of an approach. Through running, cheap oakleys, I can not only reduce the fatigue, but also feel more relaxed. That's why I like running.

my childhood memory

Memory of childhood is to human beings as diamond is to the crown.Amusing experiences add much pleasure to our long life, making us grin from ear to ear when we recall. When I was young, wholesale jerseys, I had many interesting experiences.Some of them, pitifully, have already faded away. Nevertheless there are some experiences rooted deeply in my memory.
There was a river that enriched my childhood. It is a small stream of bubbling crystal clear water that quietly flows in my grandparents' village. Every time I went to visit my grandparents, I would visit my river.
In summer, I would run to the riverside, take off my shoes, cheerfully jump into the river and then float in it. The coolness of the river protected me from the annoying hot weather. The kisses of tiny fishes kept me laughing. Sometimes, I played water with friends there, splashing water to each other. At that time, even water can entertain kids for a whole afternoon.
In winter, the river still provided fun. I just stood by the river bank, cheap fake oakleys, watching snow softly falling down and melting in the river. All was quiet. I felt myself in a paradise of peace. A heavy breath could possibly break this dreamland.
The joys I received from the river are actually far beyond description, so is my miss for it. Still, I am going to live my life treasuring every drop of happiness.

My reflections on women

As Muhhamad Ali Jinah said: there are two powers in the world; one is the sword and the other is the pen. There is great competition and between the two, there is another a power stronger than both, cheap nfl jerseys, that of woman.
What she said set me thinking a lot. I always believe that a person should depend on himself or herself, regardless of sex, Sometimes, which especially for women. On the one hand, we have inherent differences physically, they are stronger than us. On the other hand, we can reduce the prejudice which has existed for so long time. If you rely on your parents, you would be a princess; if you rely on your husband, you would be a queen consort; but if you rely on yourself, you would take charge of the whole world by yourself.
As a woman, you should learn to cook, not for others, just for yourself, when you are hungry, you do not need to beg others; you should learn to drive, when you want to travel around the world, you never need others. Also, cheap hats, only in this way can we have equal status with men and share everything whom you love,no matter it is a happiness or sadness.
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Friday, April 14, 2017

A nightmare

I once had a nightmare when I was in secondary school. The dream was so horrific that I still remembered it.
The dream happened on a winter day. I, together with my roommates,nfl jerseys cheap, was going to take a shower in the public bath. It was freezing cold outside. As soon as we stepped into the locker room, we felt the warmth in it. There were some other people whose faces I could not see clearly, but I didn't care. Nothing was more attractive than a hot bath at that moment. Everything went well when I began to take a shower. After a time, I suddenly found that people in the bathroom had disappeared, except me. It was strange, but I didn't realize it. When I came out, there was no one left in the locker room. "What happened?Where are my roommates?" I asked myself. Red liquid with smell of blood fell on my face. I looked up to see several corpses hanging overhead and blood was flowing over the ground like water. cheap hats,I plunged into the darkness somehow.

Dream

I once dreamed the doomsday. Maybe that was because I had seen the movie which called biochemical crisis.
The zombies in my dream looked like the cartoon characters of the octopus in Sponge Bob Square Pants. At first, the colour of the background in my dream was orange, which looked like the colour of dawn. In contrast,cheap nfl hats, all the zombies were green. I had been on the run all the times. The street was crowded with zombies. They stretched out their arms in order to catch the human beings and turn them to the same kind. I tried to squeeze through the panicked crowd.Unfortunately, I was found out by two zombies. A flash of inspiration came to me. I stretched out my arms, pretended I was a zombie too. I succeeded. I escaped into the last base of human existence.
When I entered into this base, I found that everything was totally different from what I thought. One person who looked like the executive people spoke at the table to inspire everyone. Under the table, there were a few soldiers who were distributing food to us. This was a bowl of green porridge. There was only a few grains of rice in it and the porridge color was very muddy. At that time, I seem to see the chief executive turned into one zombie. And the persons who had eaten that porridge turned into zombies. I was nearly out of breath and ran out of the base, hoping someone could help me. As a result,replica oakley sunglasses, all the human beings had turned in to zombies. The world had become a zombie paradise. What's more, the colour of the background turned into green. It was the zombies' colour. All the zombies reached out their hands and grabbed me, dragged me into their world. I was scared to wake up.

The Most Unpleasant Dream

The most unpleasant dream I have ever had may not be such scared and frightening. Nevertheless,nfl jerseys china, it quite astonished me so that I could still remember it clearly. When I was in the high school, I once made an acquaintance with one of my classmate, who was a boy with shiny smile and charming manner. He was not extremely handsome but really interesting which reminded me of Mr. Darcy. We had various similar hobbies that we were all found of comics, animations and computer games. So we always talked on a wide range of topics that I care about a lot. Thus, as a girl who was full of romantic illusions. I thought that I was falling in love.
As the saying goes,” The thoughts in the daytime will reflect in the night dream.” One night, I dreamed about him. Just like the beginning of the fantastic love story, he invited me to go to the cinema. At first, I didn’t realize that it was a dream. I was so thrilling that could not say a word. We strolled up to the cinema for a movie and to Café for a cappuccino, talking about anything that attracted us. Finally, he send me home. He seemed to have a bone in the throat. I was waiting anxiously and could not help imagining that he would told me he loved me. In the end, he cooed,”cheap Oakley sunglasses, Can you tell me Amy’s telephone number?” I was astonished and my face was contorted with rage in that Amy was my best friend. I don’t know how to face them.
Fortunately, I woke up.